Don’t make one thing your whole life. Whether that be a person, your family, a job, money or a sport, whatever you’re most passionate about. If you do, you risk losing everything you hold dear.
If that person is your whole world and then they leave for whatever reason, what do you have left? If your family are no longer around, what do you have left? If you can no longer do your job or take part in a particular sport, what do you have left?
Instead, make ‘living’ your whole life. Indulge in what you love but know you can live without it. Try new things to expand your horizons so there will always be something to fall back on, but know that even if there wasn’t you would be just fine.
Dare to be different, don’t try to fit in or else you’ll always be chasing the latest trend. Do what you love, be grateful to have it in your life and understand that if it’s ever time for you to part with it, that it’s just meant to be that way and you’ll survive.
Alice in Welshland 